What it takes to be still
This past week has been full of reflection, fueled by two significant moments: time spent with my men’s group and a quiet Sunday morning in church. Both experiences triggered some deep reflection about navigating the constant motion of life, facing challenges, and seeking peace amidst it all. In my men’s group, we discussed how we […]
Beware of Toxic Leaders
Among the many hats I wear, one of the most fulfilling is that of a coach and mentor. Some might say I should charge for it, and perhaps they’re right, but in many ways, it feels like the ultimate form of service, almost divine work. Coaching is a powerful word, and mentoring stands right beside […]
Life Lessons from the Duffel Bag
Life’s funniest moments often bring the most profound lessons. Recently, I had an eye- opening experience that reminded me of the simplicity we can get into our lives and how those with simpler lives often thrive. This reflection was sparked by thinking about “stuff”—the things we believe we need, how much we genuinely use, and […]
Leaders Get What They Deserve (or create)
It has been a wild week in Arizona, and as I make my way back to Montana, I find solace in the thought of seeing my granddaughters soon and spending some quality time with my boys. As I ponder this, I also reflect on where they all are in life, what they have become, how […]
The Dichotomy of Perception and Reality: A Personal Reflection
Dichotomy—a word that has recently become a frequent part of my vocabulary. It perfectly encapsulates my observations from spending time in two remarkably similar yet distinct environments. Despite people’s inherent goodness and shared values in both places, their approaches to perception, bias, and reality reveal a fascinating contrast. In one place, there’s a culture dedicated […]
The Leadership Lessons of Daisy the Dove: Patience, Simplicity, and Dedication
Who would have thought that a mourning dove could inspire and remind us of life’s basics that keep us calm and focused? Animals often demonstrate qualities that, if we pay attention, can guide us in life. Remember, Orville and Wilbur Wright invented flight by watching birds. There’s much to learn from nature, and this story […]
Navigating the Waves of Uncertainty: Leading with Patience, Grace, and Open-mindedness
In today’s world, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. The news brings fresh challenges: distant wars, social upheavals, and domestic crises. These issues often seem beyond our control, triggering reflexive reactions that range from despair to drastic declarations. These reactions are especially common among leaders who manage diverse groups, each with its values, biases, and perspectives. […]
The Unimaginable Journey: From Golf to Life’s Hole in One
We’ve all thought, “That’s not my thing,” or “Someone else is better suited for this.” Many of us believe we must be at the level required to achieve specific goals or dreams. However, as leaders of our own lives and sometimes of others, the sheer art of persistence, practice, and grit can lead to unimaginable […]
Finding Joy and Camaraderie in Unlikely Places: A Lesson from a Furniture Store
The workspace we go to every day can be many things: a place of challenge, growth, learning, and, ideally, fun. Most of us want to enjoy the company of our colleagues, have a supportive boss, and, of course, earn good pay. But often, the question arises: Do we know that we have a part in […]
Navigating the Personal Dynamics of Our Life Teams
It’s often said in jest, “You’re fired!” but the reality behind these words can provoke a deep, introspective journey, especially when it comes to managing our personal life teams. Mentorship and guidance are disciplines of their own, requiring one to adhere to the very advice they give. As ironic as it may sound, this is […]